Fatherless Women & Motherless Men: Impact On Your Love Life

Fatherless Women & Motherless Men: Impact On Your Love Life, available at $59.99, has an average rating of 4.6, with 45 lectures, based on 77 reviews, and has 443 subscribers.

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Summary

Title: Fatherless Women & Motherless Men: Impact On Your Love Life

Price: $59.99

Average Rating: 4.6

Number of Lectures: 45

Number of Published Lectures: 45

Number of Curriculum Items: 45

Number of Published Curriculum Objects: 45

Original Price: $89.99

Quality Status: approved

Status: Live

What You Will Learn

You will understand where your relationship issues come from & what you can do to improve them
You will have begun to eradicate the wariness or fear you may experience in certain relationship situations
You will have healthier & stronger boundaries
You will be well on the road to loving yourself
You will notice a clearly improved psychological and emotional quality of life
You will feel greater inner freedom in how you approach & deal with people

Who Should Attend

Your father was either absent or somehow unavailable when you were a child
Your mother was either absent or somehow unavailable when you were a child
You feel that something is not right in your adult love relationships
You have noticed that you are often wary, or even fearful in certain areas of your adult love relationships
You have several failed adult love relationships
You typically fall in love with someone who sooner or later holds you at arm's length
You have noticed you have poor boundaries
You believe you do not love yourself

Target Audiences

Your father was either absent or somehow unavailable when you were a child
Your mother was either absent or somehow unavailable when you were a child
You feel that something is not right in your adult love relationships
You have noticed that you are often wary, or even fearful in certain areas of your adult love relationships
You have several failed adult love relationships
You typically fall in love with someone who sooner or later holds you at arm's length
You have noticed you have poor boundaries
You believe you do not love yourself

What happens to the adult woman who was raised without her father – possibly due to a lack of physical or emotional presence or a combination thereof?�

What happens to the adult man whose early maternal relationship was somehow not intact, or was dysfunctional, or perceived as unfulfilling?�

Motherlessness and fatherlessness frequently depends not on the death of the parent, but on the fact that the parent of the opposite gender is not there for the child in the way that is necessary for emotional, psychological, spiritual, and in some cases, even physical development to take place in a healthy fashion. Therefore, due to this lack of solid and cohesive parenting – which sometimes may occur even when the parent is doing their best – a dysfunctional mindset, behavior, or defense mechanism may evolve in the personality of the growing boy or girl.

Sometimes a father’s physical presence may form part of the household, yet he may not be available for his daughter in the way that she hopes for as she searches his face in vain for a clue to her own identity; sometimes a mother believes she is doing her utmost to raise her son with love and attention, yet he feels as though he never received the love and support he so desperately sought from her as a child; as though he had been short-changed in the affection department.

Sometimes the parent is not actually present, due to divorce, abandonment, illness, or death; sometimes the parent is negligent, uncaring, or even abusive: in all these instances, the child suffers, and pays for it in his or her adult relationships … until he or she recognizes this and begins to work on resolving it. This course explores these issues, their recognition, and possible resolution.

Course Curriculum

Chapter 1: What Happened to the Parent That Wasn't There?

Lecture 1: Introduction

Lecture 2: An In-Depth Look at Those Missing Parents & You

Chapter 2: Defense Mechanisms

Lecture 1: Behavioral Patterns & Defense Mechanisms You May Have Built Up Part 1

Lecture 2: Behavioral Patterns & Defense Mechanisms You May Have Built Up Part 2

Chapter 3: Understanding the Psyche of Your Missing Parent (or Both)

Lecture 1: Compassion for Our Parents

Lecture 2: The Skills Our Parents Didn’t Learn Part 1

Lecture 3: The Skills Our Parents Didn’t Learn Part 2

Lecture 4: Understanding That You Will Need to Learn How to Parent Yourself

Chapter 4: Fatherless Women: Clinical Case Studies

Lecture 1: “Liz”: The Caretaker

Lecture 2: “Marianne”: Daddy’s Little Girl

Lecture 3: “Robin”: Daddy Never Saw Her – As Though She Never Existed

Lecture 4: “Janine”: Blind Love & Betrayal of the Girl by the Mother

Lecture 5: “Marilyn”: Love is Pain; Pain is Love

Lecture 6: “Maia”: You are so Precious & Wonderful – Only I Know How to Love You

Chapter 5: Motherless Men: Clinical Case Studies

Lecture 1: “Jonathan”: You’ll Never Measure Up to Your Father

Lecture 2: “Malcolm”: Perceived Abandonment

Lecture 3: “Richard”: Lovelessness & Rejection

Lecture 4: “Damien”: Perceived Betrayal

Lecture 5: "Victor”: I Will Spoil & Pamper You, But You May Not Grow Up

Lecture 6: “Sean”: You Owe Me

Chapter 6: How Might Fatherlessness or Motherlessness Manifest in You?

Lecture 1: Poor Self Esteem/Boundaries, Caretaking & Enabling Behavior, Fear of Rejection

Lecture 2: Perfectionism, Order, Control, Rebellion against Authority

Lecture 3: Self , "Self-Medicating”, Pseudo-Independence

Lecture 4: Neediness, Insecurity, Suspicion, Emotional Unavailability, Emotional Blunting

Lecture 5: Sexual Dysfunction

Lecture 6: Lack of Self-Love, Self-Acceptance, Self-Respect

Chapter 7: A Portrait of the Emotionally Mature Adult Man or Woman

Lecture 1: Thoughts, Emotions & the Ego

Lecture 2: Awareness, Choice & Boundaries

Lecture 3: Pain, Forgiving & Self-Responsibility

Lecture 4: Life Meaning, Gratitude & Being Present

Lecture 5: Self-Soothing, Self-Love, Happiness

Lecture 6: Establishing the Inner Connection, Loving Others, Loving the World

Chapter 8: Finding Your Way to Emotional Health & Maturity

Lecture 1: Step 1: Examine Your Patterns: Part 1

Lecture 2: Step 1: Examine Your Patterns: Part 2

Lecture 3: Step 1: Examine Your Patterns: Part 3

Lecture 4: Step 2: Shoring Up Unhealthy Boundaries

Lecture 5: Step 3: Building Awareness Every Day

Lecture 6: Step 4: Finding Your Way to Self-Love

Lecture 7: Step 5: Recognizing & Replacing Unhelpful Self-Dialogue

Lecture 8: Step 6: Taking on Total Self-Responsibility: Part 1

Lecture 9: Step 6: Taking on Total Self-Responsibility: Part 2

Lecture 10: Step 7: Making It Your Goal to Forgive

Lecture 11: Step 8: Understanding That You Will Need to Learn How to Parent Yourself (2)

Lecture 12: Conclusion

Chapter 9: Bonus Content

Lecture 1: Bonus Content

Instructors

Gabriella Kortsch
Bestselling Author, Psychotherapist, Relationship Coach

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