Family Constellation: Master Course

Course Curriculum

Chapter 1: Introduction

Lecture 1: Welcome to this course

Lecture 2: What you learn in this course

Lecture 3: About me

Lecture 4: Do not believe in me: Find your own truth!

Lecture 5: Recommendations how to use this course

Lecture 6: Practice: My image of my family

Chapter 2: Family history

Lecture 1: Where does your name come from?

Lecture 2: The importance of the facts of the family history

Lecture 3: Why the fate of an ancestor may influence your life

Lecture 4: Why is a member of the family excluded? About shame and horror

Lecture 5: Practice: What do you know about your family history?

Lecture 6: Deep down you love your family more than you ever thought

Lecture 7: Who belongs to your family?

Lecture 8: Practice: You connect with what you heard till now

Lecture 9: Different layers of connection

Chapter 3: Method Family Constellation

Lecture 1: Family constellation – a new method which reveals the hidden connections

Lecture 2: A personal example of a constellation

Lecture 3: What is the core of the method?

Lecture 4: How can the reactions of the representatives be explained?

Lecture 5: Your task as a client

Lecture 6: My attempt to describe what happens in a constellation

Lecture 7: The ground of constellation work: order, energy and facts

Lecture 8: Order 1: Everyone has a good and adequate place in a system

Lecture 9: Order 2: Parents are “big”, children are “small”

Lecture 10: Order 3: Everyone belongs to his family in the same way

Lecture 11: Order 4: Each carries his own life and destiny

Lecture 12: The magic power of bowing before someone

Lecture 13: Summary of the orders

Lecture 14: Each constellation is a dance between energy, order and facts

Lecture 15: Each facilitator develops his own style between the poles

Lecture 16: More about the founder Bert Hellinger

Lecture 17: Personal remark about facts and the confusion in families

Lecture 18: Distinguish energy and facts!

Lecture 19: Constellations can lead in the wrong direction – an example

Lecture 20: How to work with symbols on your own

Chapter 4: Connecting more with your parents

Lecture 1: Practice: Meeting your mother

Lecture 2: Discover or strengthen the loving connection to your mother and father!

Lecture 3: Why parents are so important to children

Lecture 4: How does a good adult relationship with one's own parents look like?

Lecture 5: Past wounding must be seen and acknowledged

Lecture 6: Seeing the parents with the adult's eyes

Lecture 7: Practice: Look to your mother or father with the adult's eyes!

Lecture 8: The thankfulness for life

Lecture 9: The tensions between father and mother

Lecture 10: Practice: Withdraw from the tensions between your parents!

Lecture 11: The importance of the biological parents

Lecture 12: You can find love a n d freedom

Lecture 13: When parents grow old

Chapter 5: The consequences of death and heavy fate in a family

Lecture 1: The death of father or mother

Lecture 2: Death and guilt

Lecture 3: The death of a sibling

Lecture 4: If a child is handicapped

Lecture 5: If your parents lost their parents early on

Lecture 6: Death or illness of the mother as a result of childbirth – and its consequenc

Lecture 7: Suicide in a family and its consequences

Chapter 6: Love and relationship

Lecture 1: Love and conflicts in a relationship

Lecture 2: Practice: Take a look at your partnership

Lecture 3: Two different solutions in constellations

Lecture 4: Practice: You take responsibility for the relationship as it is

Lecture 5: Practice: You leave the role of a victim

Lecture 6: What's stopping someone from taking all the responsibility

Lecture 7: Old pain turns into longing

Lecture 8: Practice: Discover your child feelings in current conflicts

Lecture 9: When someone cannot really open up in a love relationship

Lecture 10: The loyalty to the unhappiness

Lecture 11: Practice: What in your relationship is similar to the relationship of the parent

Lecture 12: The impact of past relationships

Lecture 13: Practice: Come in peace with your first love

Lecture 14: Practice: Are you jealous of a former partner?

Lecture 15: What men and women can and cannot give each other

Lecture 16: Practice: You express the appropriate respect for your partner

Lecture 17: Two different forms of love: parents/children and the couple

Lecture 18: Practice: The gratitude for a love relationship

Chapter 7: Parenthood

Lecture 1: A couple's desire for a child

Lecture 2: It is difficult to be a good parent today

Lecture 3: Practice: Taking on the role of a parent to your child

Lecture 4: If you want to be „big“ before your child, become “small” before your parents!

Lecture 5: Practice: You admit your confusion between being „big“ and „small“

Lecture 6: Parents are never perfect

Lecture 7: Practice: Accepting the own imperfection

Lecture 8: It is important to keep children out of couple conflicts

Lecture 9: Practice: Keeping children out of couple conflicts

Lecture 10: Single parents

Lecture 11: Looking at abortions beyond morality

Lecture 12: Practice: Coming with the abortion of a child in peace

Lecture 13: Practice: Coming in peace with your partner for an abortion

Lecture 14: Finding order in the patchwork family

Lecture 15: Practice: Finding order in your patchwork family

Lecture 16: Practice: Thanks to the one who cares for your child

Chapter 8: Guilt and traumatic experiences

Lecture 1: Introduction: Guilt, perpetrator and victim, trauma

Lecture 2: Personal guilt: A constellation in a prison

Lecture 3: Practice: Looking to someone you hurt